Yep that’s right! What you wear on a day to day basis has not only an impression on how others see you – but also how you see yourself. A lot of people only dress well and groom themselves when they have an important event or meeting – and then the rest of the time they go around looking like a dishevelled slob! MISTAKE!!!!!

You should dress as if every day is important – as if everyday there is an important social outing or meeting where you want to look good. Why I hear you ask?! Well… dressing a certain way makes you feel a certain way. If you dress well and invest time in how you look – then you will respect yourself more, have more confidence and your self-esteem will sky rocket! On the other hand if you go around (on the days where you would have in the past felt there was nothing special to dress up for) with un-brushed hair and un-matching clothes that you just threw on any auld way… then you will most likely lack in self confidence, self belief, feel lethargic and unmotivated to achieve your goals.

In this thing we call life – you need to be aware of who you are and what you want. You are the one who has to make things happen for yourself – because believe me… if you just sit back and wait for it to “fall into your lap” you’ll be 78 years old and still’a sittin!! In order for you achieve the things that you want in your life – you need to feel and believe – deep inside yourself…. that you can and you will succeed. It’s very hard to have that belief in yourself if you don’t act and dress in the way that your subconscious mind thinks that successful achievers dress. Think about that now…. How do you see a successful, achieving and happy person dressing?? Now… is that the way you dress?? If not… then maybe it’s time to go shopping?! Now I’m not saying you have to be totally straight laced and buttoned up! All I’m saying is to dress like you care about yourself... with a little style and grooming.

Think of it this way – if you treat every single day as a really important day, you will undoubtedly feel better and more confident within yourself – even if you don’t believe it yet! Why not try it for let’s say 2 weeks… so every day you put in the effort in how you present yourself… you shower, cleanse your skin, shave….you do your hair nicely, you put on a nice perfume or aftershave… If you’re a woman – you put on your make-up. You dress with style, smartly and elegantly. You do all things that make you feel good about yourself. All the things that you would normally only do if you were meeting someone important or had to make a good impression, except now you’re going to do it every day.

You will begin to notice that other people will react differently to you when you dress with intent. They will believe that you do respect and believe in yourself, which in turn will make them have more respect and belief in you! You will also begin to act differently towards others, as you’ll begin to feel better about yourself, you’ll have more confidence and generally feel more in control.

So now… the test is on… and I bet that changing the way you dress will change the way you feel…. Dress every day as if it really matters and you will feel more confident, more self assured, motivated and happier… This is your life… to live it… achieve it… Be the best you can possibly be!

Happy Dressing!!
Katie-Jane xx

P.S. If you take the challenge – email me and let me know how you are getting on? I’d really love to hear from you!! This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it