Goldin Girl Column

Guilt is a funny old emotion... and its one that is very self centred and pretty much all about you and your inner feelings. Guilt usually appears in our lives for a reason...and if it creeps its creepy little way into your life... then it should be dealt with immediately so as not to keep those pointless guilt ridden feelings rattling around in your brain for any longer then they should. Now don't get me wrong - I do believe that feelings of guilt can only be felt by good natured people. People, who have morals and feel bad when they have done something wrong, hurt someone who trusted them, let somebody down or just made a mistake in some way. But at the end of the day - those feelings are pointless and a complete waste of time and energy if you don't act upon them. You need to learn how to deal with your guilt one way or another and move forward.

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What's the difference between people who really make it in the word... the one's we refer to as successful... and the average ones who just survive and live a life in the never ending rat race of the world? A lot of the time - the super successful ones are the people who put in the effort. They are the ones who are actually good at their job and don't just "do" it just for the sake of it.

Read more: Don't just "do" a job.... Be good at it!!

Do you want to be rich? If the answer is yes... then let's start at the beginning. In order to become wealthy... rich... minted... whatever you want to call it... you have to have your head in the right place. You gotta have your mind in the game. You have to be motivated and strive to perform your best in all that you do. You have to work hard, get up early, push yourself throughout the day and still go to bed thinking of your goals and what you will do tomorrow to continue on your journey of becoming wealthy and staying wealthy!

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Think about that for a moment... when you are no longer alive and part of this planet... what will your children say about you? How will your friends speak of you? What will your grandchildren think of your life and how you lived it? Will people you don't know still mention you?! And if they do... what context will it be in? "Oh she was a very successful woman, or he was an inspiration"... or it could be "oh Jimmy who? Naaaa I don't really remember him!" Ok -so I know that this is slightly morbid... but really - the truth is - if you got hit by a bus in the morning... would you be happy with how people would remember you?

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